Hey guys! I know I have been gone for so long and I’m really sorry! I want to get back on the weekly writing, here, how about you guys hold me accountable? I’ll leave my twitter and my instagram below and tweet me and comment letting me know to keep writing! There has been so much crazy stuff going on that it’s been a little hard. This time though since it is “Valentine’s Day” I figured I’d talk about that. Now for some of you, you may have wonderful and awesome memories. Maybe its when you first met your boyfriend/girlfriend or shared a first kiss, or any memory. For others maybe some not so good memories. Anyways we can all agree we have some type of memory from that day. This post though is all about being happy while single.
I wanted to begin with people who use #foreveralone now I do that too sometimes to poke fun, but the thing is that you aren’t! You just haven’t met that person and yet and that’s completely okay! It’s okay to have a boyfriend/girlfriend or crush but I’m saying if you don’t its okay. Don’t settle! I see way too many people chase after people that aren’t worthy, or end up just using someone for a date on Valentines or New Years. For me I’m not going to settle just so that I can have a fun time, it’s not fair to me or him. You have to love yourself for who you are before you are ever able to love anyone else. Don’t go chasing after a Nicholas Sparks fairytale. You will be able to write your own.
There are so many girls and guys who say that just want a boyfriend/girlfriend they may not even know who but they just want one. That’s fine but chances are they are going to end up with someone who is so not worth their awesomeness. So you, yes you, you reading this, I never want you to settle. You guys are all amazing how you are and just because you haven’t met that special someone doesn’t mean you never will! You have your whole life to figure this stuff out, be free, and be yourself and enjoy life while you can. Have some you time, spend time with friends or family. If you feel like you need someone else just to make you happy that’s not okay, you guys are all awesome, and don’t need anyone. You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else.
If you guys have any stories or want any advice leave it in my askbox, I’ll be checking soon and who knows maybe we can exchange some advice! So I’ll leave all my social media links below! Just to leave you guys with a really corny quote here you go. Fall in Love when you’re ready not when you’re lonely.
XOXO Stay Beautiful,
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